Wednesday, May 8, 2013

5 Crafts to Do This Summer

In the midst of finals week, I just can't seem to keep my mind off summer. By the next time I blog, I'll be done with finals and my freshman year. Wow. The time went by so fast and there's a lot of stuff that I'll miss about living in Milwaukee and Marquette life.

However, missing college life has already been eclipsed by the prospect of me going home. My best friend is already home for the summer, and I am dreaming about long days crafting with my gal. Before we went to college, we made crafts for our dorm rooms like glittered initials, and Modge Podge Sterilite drawers.

Quiet frankly, school and college life is really getting the best of me and I could definitely use a few months away from all of this because I need some room to breathe.

After all what goes better with relaxing than crafting? Here are some crafts I'll be attempting!


1. Secret Hollow Book!

The options for this are endless! I could use this for jewelry, knick-knacks, spare change or maybe a few secrets. Super cute. My roommate made one of these this year, and though it took her a while to cut through the pages, it paid off to made a really special gift.



My best friend, Katie and I saw these a few months ago and have been dying to give them a try. We got to colleges in different states and I think these will be ADORABLE. Super easy two, all you do is sharpie and bake these. Definitely a must. 



I did take Fashion Workshop in high school so I should be thoroughly prepared to sew just a pocket on to a sweatshirt. This will not break the bank, but will for sure be a great addition to my sweat shirt collection! (It seems to be a dupe for those pricey but adorable Frat Collection tees and sweats!)





This would be fun to make with a little figurine. It would be cute to have on my desk next year, or to just do for fun. Totally random, but it just caught my eye!!





I'm just obsessed with ombré! In shirts, scarfs, school supplies and even my hair. I wouldn't mind making a  few of these this summer. Super cool!



When I make the final products of these, I do a follow up blog post telling you about my experience. Do you consider yourself crafty? Got a any suggestions for me? Let me know in the comments!!

Always,

Emily



Monday, May 6, 2013

5 Books to Read This Summer

I'm a a reader. A "read for fun" type of girl. To give you a better idea: when I was younger, when I was in trouble my parents would take away my books. Nowadays,  I am well known by family and friends for laughing and crying while reading books (even in public).

Summer is really great because it gives me time to indulge my bookworm side and read to my hearts content. On planes, in my backyard, at the beach in my bed: you name it I'll be reading. My goal this summer is to read 20 books. If I end up succeeding, I'll blog about my five favorites and my five least favorite. I'll start off my list with just 5 books I'll for sure be reading this summer. I linked the covers to Amazon and posted a the description for the book to give you a little preview.

1. The Fault is In Our Stars


Winner of the 2013 Odyssey Award for Excellence in Audiobook Production Despite the tumor-shrinking medical miracle that has bought her a few years, Hazel has never been anything but terminal, her final chapter inscribed upon diagnosis. But when a gorgeous plot twist named Augustus Waters suddenly appears at Cancer Kid Support Group, Hazel’s story is about to be completely rewritten. Insightful, bold, irreverent, and raw, The Fault in Our Stars is award-winning-author John Green’s most ambitious and heartbreaking work yet, brilliantly exploring the funny, thrilling, and tragic business of being alive and in love. 

2. Love Does



As a college student he spent 16 days in the Pacific Ocean with five guys and a crate of canned meat. As a father he took his kids on a world tour to eat ice cream with heads of state. He made friends in Uganda, and they liked him so much he became the Ugandan consul. He pursued his wife for three years before she agreed to date him. His grades weren't good enough to get into law school, so he sat on a bench outside the Dean’s office for seven days until they finally let him enroll. 

Bob Goff has become something of a legend, and his friends consider him the world's best-kept secret. Those same friends have long insisted he write a book. What follows are paradigm shifts, musings, and stories from one of the world’s most delightfully engaging and winsome people. What fuels his impact? Love. But it's not the kind of love that stops at thoughts and feelings. Bob's love takes action. Bob believes Love Does.

When Love Does, life gets interesting. Each day turns into a hilarious, whimsical, meaningful chance that makes faith simple and real. Each chapter is a story that forms a book, a life. And this is one life you don't want to miss.

Light and fun, unique and profound, the lessons drawn from Bob's life and attitude just might inspire you to be secretly incredible, too.


3. The Perks of Being a Wall Flower



Since its publication, Stephen Chbosky’s haunting debut novel has received critical acclaim, provoked discussion and debate, grown into a cult phenomenon with over two million copies in print, spent over six months at #1 on the New York Timesbestseller list, and inspired a major motion picture.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a story about what it’s like to travel that strange course through the uncharted territory of high school. The world of first dates, family dramas, and new friends. Of sex, drugs, and The Rocky Horror Picture Show. Of those wild and poignant roller-coaster days known as growing up.


4.  Shake Hands With the Devil: The Failure of Humanity in Rwanda



For the first time in the United States comes the tragic and profoundly important story of the legendary Canadian general who "watched as the devil took control of paradise on earth and fed on the blood of the people we were supposed to protect." When Roméo Dallaire was called on to serve as force commander of the UN Assistance Mission for Rwanda, he believed that his assignment was to help two warring parties achieve the peace they both wanted. Instead, he was exposed to the most barbarous and chaotic display of civil war and genocide in the past decade, observing in just one hundred days the killings of more than eight hundred thousand Rwandans. With only a few troops, his own ingenuity and courage to direct his efforts, Dallaire rescued thousands, but his call for more support from the world body fell on deaf ears. In Shake Hands with the Devil, General Dallaire recreates the awful history the world community chose to ignore. He also chronicles his own progression from confident Cold Warrior to devastated UN commander, and finally to retired general struggling painfully, and publicly, to overcome posttraumatic stress disorder—the highest-ranking officer ever to share such experiences with readers.

5. The Storyteller (Thanks Kelly!)




Sage Singer is a baker. She works through the night, preparing the day’s breads and pastries, trying to escape a reality of loneliness, bad memories, and the shadow of her mother’s death. When Josef Weber, an elderly man in Sage’s grief support group, begins stopping by the bakery, they strike up an unlikely friendship. Despite their differences, they see in each other the hidden scars that others can’t, and they become companions.

Everything changes on the day that Josef confesses a long-buried and shameful secret—one that nobody else in town would ever suspect—and asks Sage for an extraordinary favor. If she says yes, she faces not only moral repercussions, but potentially legal ones as well. With her own identity suddenly challenged, and the integrity of the closest friend she’s ever had clouded, Sage begins to question the assumptions and expectations she’s made about her life and her family. When does a moral choice become a moral imperative? And where does one draw the line between punishment and justice, forgiveness and mercy?

In this searingly honest novel, Jodi Picoult gracefully explores the lengths we will go in order to protect our families and to keep the past from dictating the future.

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What books do you want to read this summer? Let me know!

Always,

Emily

Friday, May 3, 2013

5 Places I Want to Travel To

If there's one thing that I know for sure about myself it's that I need to travel.

Notice how I said need. I truly believe that the amount I travel will correlate to my level of happiness. No matter what my future holds or what I end up doing, I know that I could not live my whole life in one place. The prospect of travel allows me to breathe, because the thought of staying where I am terrifies me. I guess there's probably some psychology to that.

When I was given the opportunity to travel to Rwanda with my church,  I knew that I was going. At the meeting when it was announced I looked at my mom square in the eye and we both just knew that nothing could stop me.  It was like saying the sky was blue. It was just so obvious that I had to go. I guess this is for a lot of reasons: where I was in my life and what I was involved in and what I cared about. But my mom has traveled more than anyone I've ever met in real life so I think she understands the pull I feel to leave.

I talk about leaving a lot, actually. Which might scare some people, but it goes back to the sky thing. The grass is green. Emily is going to travel. It seems to be a truth universally acknowledged by my family and friends. Because they see it, it's impossible not to. Whether it be Riviera Maya or Booneville, Arkansas, I come back and I am happier, smarter and a little bit more whole then when I left. I've never been more happy to be alive (or just happy period) then I was when I was dancing around drums in the Kigali sunset.

One of my favorite and most sacred birthday presents I ever got was from my uncle when I turned 17. It this huge book called "The Travel Book: A Journey Through Every Country in the World". I spent hours devouring this book when I got home from my grandparents house. I was barely 2 weeks home from Rwanda but the glossy pictures in the book seduced me. I spent the night sprawled out on my wooden floor trying to wrap my mind on how I was going to travel to every country.

I'm sure I'll figure it out somehow, but to start out with 5. Expect additions to this list in the future!

1. South Africa



2. Greece



3. Thailand



4. The UK (Specifically London)



5. France (both cities like Paris, and southern coast)


"I haven't been everywhere, but it's on my list" -Susan Sontag

If you could hop on a plane at this moment, where would you go?

Always,

Emily

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

5 Things I Learned at School Today

It seems inevitable that once I get in a good rhythm of blogging I just fall behind. This time it wasn't necessarily intentional, I've just been generally feeling uninspired. School and a lot of other stuff has seemed to run me dry lately, giving me less and less to feed off of, much less have something worthwhile to offer this blog.

However, today changed the tides for me. I'm in my last week of classes of my freshman year of college before my final exams next week. In a lot of ways, I've given up on this year, promising that when I return next fall I'll be somehow better equipped to handle everything. This combined with some heartbreaking news I received from back home completely blind sided me to consider that one of my professors could say anything that would excite me, about school, about life, about anything really.

I heard from an older girl somewhere along the road of this semester that I was not to miss the last class of this particular professor. I did what I was told, and showed up today with piqued interest about what could be different about this class section.

I was not disappointed. My professor began the class by thanking us for taking this class and giving everyone in the class (40ish students) individuals bags of popcorn to snack on during finals. He then launched into a monologue that was really just about life, and lessons he sincerely wanted us to learn. It moved me so much that I (the notorious cry baby) was holding back tears as a left the room.

Now none of this advice is something that it totally original or earth shattering. It's advice you've heard from parents, teachers, neighbors or friends somewhere down the course of your life. But it was something about the way he spoke that mesmerized my entire class. It was the twinkle in his eye spoke that told me that everything he was saying is true. The way he looked at all of us conveyed his sincerity and the weight that his words carried.

I would now like to share a few things he spoke to us about today. I will not be able to say these lessons as eloquently or with as much passion as my professor did today.

1) Always say thank you to people you love. Never assume that they know how much you appreciate them. After all, tomorrow is promised to no one, so take the extra time to let people know how they've made you better. (He also pointed out the significance and sacredness of a handwritten thank you note)

2) Seize the opportunities life presents you with and don't be a bystander in your life. Actively approach the parade that is life. It's a great spectacle to watch the parade from a safe distance, but to be in the parade is something else entirely.

3) Laugh hard, laugh often, and even laugh at yourself once and a while.

4) I'm going to try and paraphrase this one the best I can. "When you fall in love, it's kind of like getting in to a pool. You can either tip-toe your way in or jump in at the deep end. When you jump off the ledge and into the pool, there's a moment of not knowing. Of not knowing whether the water will be cold or warm, and that moment of not knowing is the most exciting part about life. Falling like that, and not being able to go back is what keeps us alive. You could get in the water and find it terribly cold and your heart will get broken, and that sucks. But I swear it'll happen to you when you jump in and the water's warm and you'll never want to leave. Love hard, with everything you got"

5) The overarching message of his whole speech today was that, its not the things that happen in your life, it's the people you meet along the way. He told us how he can't remember the grades he got on his finals during the spring semester of his freshman year of college. However he did remember the conversations he had with friend over a beer, or watching a 17 inning baseball game before having to say good bye to someone he cared about or what it was like when he met his wife for the first time. It's the people you meet along the way that change you and challenge you, so be open to learning from other people. He said "all of this crap (school, jobs, etc.) boils down to the people that you share it with."

This professor will probably never know how his words touched me today, but I know that when I left class today I was more excited about life. It made me so happy and hopeful that people like my professor exist in the world. People that are seeking to share advice, and to encourage another generation to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. I will absolutely never forget today's lecture.

Where ever my professor is now: thank you thank you thank you. Life just seems so much more beautiful.

To better days,

Emily